Akurat this post does not exhaust the whole subject because I have for him about 30 minutes - the weather is beautiful so we take the grill, and how quite a few of the residents of Bonn and the surrounding area go to the Rhine:)
We start from the people who live here. General are nice and helpful but it is really difficult to be well acquainted. Obviously this is not the rule and I am an example that this is possible, because I have a few good friends - native German, but there is always a but.
talked about the exchange student or whatever socjologii psychology from the U.S. who told me that according to the theory of some well-known sociologist, an American and a German can be compared to the peach and coconut. The first is very soft from the outside - it can easily get in touch, however, many more could be expected because the interior is not so "deep".
The second one is heavy in direct contact and through the coconut you have to break heavily, but, as the Germans are friends are really good friends.
And now a few examples:
I go to lectures with 6 semester - as if anyone thought, being on a six semester, is already on the studio lot of friends and no matter where being a lecture, you can meet someone he knew - at least someone who can say part of it and talk about how much you do not like these studies:) But not in Germany. Here, the students despite the fact that so long time studying does not know well and at worst did not expect this contact. Simply enter the lecture and then they come out, at best, will sit with a small group of friends. As you probably guessed, this causes problems with the work of the group. And so it is in reality. On the Common Criteria, we must work in groups and I'm in a group of four native Germany - our work in a group is that no one simply does not want:)
Sitting somewhere near Germany did not expect that he will try to talk to you - no matter or sit at the college or going out to the pub in a group where not everyone knows each other and happened to sit next to a German. There is no such possibility. Even if Germany does not know that I am a Pole. You just are like that and end.
I talk with people who were born in Poland but as a small child moved to Germany, and even though they have that already live here 20 years, speak German better than they say in Polish and so can not be assimilated to an end with the Germans. It's always a group of their closest friends in the majority of people not of German origin.
Once familiar, even a German (or out of necessity or by accident) and is so you can not count on anything more than is required by the situation. For example, if you do a project together at the college is at 99% no more of your knowledge does not come out:) This is true for both women and men.
Issue 2 - Laziness! Yes
do to make but did not cause. They have a wealth of social security and generally got them for the good in life. Many Germans working on a piece of time because the more I do not want to. The best finish work at 13 and go home. Only cry like a crisis and will have to work to say goodbye. I really do not know how much it took to feel good the car or other services
So far behind - the rest tomorrow:)
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